Before a Divorce
GATHER ALL NECESSARY DOCUMENTS:
This includes bank records, credit cards statements, tax statements, insurance documents, employee benefit plans, loan information, estate planning documents retirement plans, and any other documents tied to your finances.
Although the common belief is to remove an ex-spouses as beneficiary on any account as soon as possible, it is best to consult with your divorce attorney before making these changes.
Make copies of these documents and give them to your attorney.
TRACK YOUR BUDGET:
If you are certain that divorce in inevitable, it is important to start tracking all household income and spending. This will help your attorney determine an equitable way of splitting up assets and liabilities.
The more information that you have the better! Records from previous years could help smooth out any inconsistencies found in just 1-year’s worth of spending.
Doing a budget and providing records could help the court determe if child or spousal support is necessary.
It is ok to include non-recurring expenses, such as home maintenance and vacations.
Think about future spending, especially if you have children. Expenses such as day-care, after-school activities, car insurance, private school, or college tuition are examples to consider.
Tracking your budget can also help you determine future expenses after your divorce is finalized. Some expenses may fall off while others will be added.
Ultimately, it is important for you to have a plan so that you can remain financially stable throughout this tough time.
IMPORTANT DON’TS:
Don’t make any large purchases – these types of purchases could end up causing complications throughout the divorce process.
Don’t move out of your home! It is best to consult with your attorney before deciding which spouse moves out.
IMPORTANT DO'S:
Start putting money aside. Many divorces cost more than expected, which is why being proactive may alleviate some financial pressure.
Set up a P.O box – this will help you prevent missing important documents if you decide to move out.
Hire an attorney. If there is any chance that you feel that the divorce will end up being contested and having to go to court, it is important to get an attorney involved ASAP.
Their guidance could help you get your fair share and navigate the legal complexities divorce usually entails.
Speak with several attorneys before selecting one. Look for someone that you feel comfortable with, but also has experience in cases similar to yours.